White people get so angry at the phrase, “You cannot be racist towards white people.”
I will never understand why.
Why are you so angry that you are being treated as actual human beings? You are not reduced to caricatures, but portrayed as characters. You are treated fairly, judged not by your skin tone, but by the ways that you carry yourselves, by your actions.
Why do you want to experience racism so badly? It is not fun to be mocked, dehumanized, attacked, killed, incarcerated simply for daring to exist. It is not fun to know nothing of your history or family because it was torn apart, whether through distance or death. It is not fun to hear, at every turn, comments reminding you of your lesser status as humans.
Do you really want to turn on the tv, open a magazine, watch a movie, play a video game, and not see yourself? Or, even better, to only see yourself as a criminal, as a drunk, a mocking stereotype, or as someone to be killed off? Or would you rather see fleshed out, well-written characters with lives and personalities and feelings? I know which I’d rather pick.
If I were a white person, the phrase, “You cannot be racist towards white people,” would be the best thing I could ever hear.
The reason women are turning you down for casual sex seems to be that, for one thing, a lot of you are calling them sluts afterward. Also, a lot of you aren’t bothering to try to be good in bed.
My boyfriend Fox and I. As taken by shanahope
This story that’s been going around has been pissing me off so much. Like wow, maybe if you actually put a tenth of the effort that was put into this spreadsheet into figuring out what turns your wife on and off (hint: passive aggressive spreadsheet-making is probably a turn off), you wouldn’t be getting turned down so damn often.
I feel really bad for her. Especially when you look at the reasons. One of them is because she still felt tender from the day before. Like you’re hurting her but you’re going to blame her. He doesn’t seem mature enough to have sex.
Even on the days when it’s not something like actual pain, she is clearly just not in the mood.
When he’s like “said we’d be late but we were actually early by 20 minutes” it’s like he thinks he’s catching her in a lie or something, but really he’s just making it super clear that the real reason his wife won’t have sex with him is that his wife just doesn’t want to have sex with him.
Not surprising, considering the window of time he thought was adequate was 20 minutes… I’m not saying it’s only good if someone can “last” 20 minutes, but if he thinks it’s sexy for the entire act—from getting undressed to foreplay to whatever to laying there all orgasmed out for a bit—to have a 20-minute time limit on it, then no wonder his wife doesn’t want to have sex with him.
This man is a piece of shit (if this is even real. probably just invented to go viral) and there were two “Yes” in this spreadsheet anyway, so I don’t know what he’s complaining about.
Maybe if he could try to be less of a shit, his wife would be more in the mood… but being less of a shit involves understanding that people’s sex drives differ and that maybe twice in one month is more than enough for someone that he willingly chose to get married to.
Marrying someone does NOT mean you are entitled to sex with them or that they are under any obligation to have sex with you, let alone a frequent amount of sex………
If a man ever tried to “call me out” for saying no, I would immediately leave him. I hope that, if this couple even really exists, the wife bails on this loser.
I hope she uses this in the divorced proceedings.
I hope the next addition to this list is ‘made a spreadsheet of all the times I wouldn’t have sex with you’
“Women are more likely to be attracted to personality and men are more likely to be attracted to physical appearance.”
Woah maybe that’s because we teach women to see men as people and we teach men to see women as objects.
Ding ding ding ding ding.
Twiggy in fur and pearls (1967)